Dad is not bouncing back like we are use to him doing.
His heart rate is erratic, they gave him insulin, and his kidneys are shutting down.
The doctor is thinking he might need dialysis. His spirits are low. He still hasn't been allowed to even sit up. Anyone who knows Dad, knows he has a hard time staying still.
He hasn't had anything to drink since Thursday. Nothing to eat since Wednesday. He is thirsty, hungry, hurting, sad and gets mad at himself because he is cranky.
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| Even this didn't make him laugh. |
He worries about everyone and hates that he is causing angst.
Mom is trying to be brave... but it is not always easy..
The hospitals impassive attitude is starting to get to us all.. His nurse over rules everything that sounds good to us e.g. Giving him nutrients via IV... letting him move around.. giving him a damned ice chip..
Here is hoping that tomorrow is a better day.
My sister and I are with you. We think of you all everyday. We are with June and Bob and all of you in spirit and we are going through this with you. I know that's scary, but we'll keep the outbursts to a minimum. Loves.... M
ReplyDeleteThanks Mica, I know all this is bringing up sad memories for you.
ReplyDeleteFeel free to add whatever outburts that come to mind.
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Okay, outburst.....
ReplyDeletedoes it make any sense not to give a man IV liquids and nutrients???? Wouldn't the damn result be kidney shutdown???? What am I missing here? For hell's sake give the guy some ice chips!!!!!!!! I hate this shit!!!! Get the big C and have staff treat you without dignity is cruel, unfortunately not unusual.
outburst complete. Carry on.